Chicago II: The Good Deed
My list of most satisfying sensations includes flossing after eating corn-on-the-cob; scratching mosquito bites; peeing after a long car ride on which excessive amounts of water and iced tea have been consumed; receiving dog kisses from clean Wheaten terriers; removing a dry contact lens; sneezing after several false alarms; successfully plucking a piece of stubborn eyebrow stubble; and watching mean people trip.
But truly, there are few feelings better than seeing the impact of a good deed you’ve done.
On Sunday, our last day in Chicago, Keith and I partook of the noon-ish meal at a diner-esque venue called Tempo and then threw away money on a so-called Gangster Tour. The Gangster Tour consisted of a 90-minute school bus ride narrated by a scrappy college kid in a cheap zoot suit. He instructed us to duck every time we heard (plastic) gunfire, handed out equally plastic roses to all the “dolls” on the tour, and had obviously trained at the Rodney Dangerfield Mail Order School of Comedy.
Cabrini Green: "Temporary lay-offs ... GOOD TIMES!"
The tour made just two actual stops. The first was Holy Name Cathedral, near which Earl “Hymee” Weiss, a Capone rival, was gunned down in 1926. That wasn’t his real name, in case you care, and he was Polish, not Jewish. The second was Cabrini Green, icon of American public housing gone bad and the setting of Good Times. Cabrini Green wasn’t even built until 1942, long after Al Capone had gone crazy from syphilis, so I’m not sure what its remnants had to do with him. We did, however, do a very brief hi-bye of the Biograph Theater in Lincoln Park, where Public Enemy No. 1, aka John Dillinger, had been shot in 1934. That was somewhat cool. As was the cupcake we had from MORE on the way back.
That evening, we dined at the famed romantic fondue restaurant Geja’s. From Geja’s, we took a cab to Navy Pier. As we were getting out of the cab, Keith grabbed what he thought was my wallet from the back seat. It wasn’t. The cab pulled away very quickly so we weren’t able to return said wallet to the driver, who might have known which previous passenger had left it. Luckily, a policeman was walking the beat nearby. Unluckily, he advised us against giving him the wallet, as he’d have to send it to Central Processing where it would most likely just get sucked into a vortex and never see daylight again.
Thank you, officer. That’s very comforting.
We attempted to find the owner through the obvious channels with no luck — he had a pretty common name and there was no listing for him at the address on his ID card. We considered the various options we had for getting it back to him, none of which were entirely viable.
I was sure that the journalist-stalker in me could track this guy down. There had to be something in the wallet that would tell us how to find him. I deduced that he had recently collected unemployment benefits (folded claim); worked in the food services industry or really liked roughage (handwritten list of salad types and the most appropriate dressings for them); was Catholic (tiny prayer card featuring the Virgin Mary); had relatives somewhere (photos of a couple and a little girl); knew a district attorney in Sacramento (business card); and didn’t drive (no license — just the government ID card).
Naturally I concocted the saddest possible story for this phantom wallet owner. He’d had really bad luck with jobs, which took its toll on his marriage. The woman in the picture is his ex-wife, Joanie, who left him, and the little girl, now an angry teen, is his daughter (Jessica or Lisa). The photos are old, but he holds on to them as a reminder of better times. He hasn’t seen his daughter in years and she’s a Goth now. His apartment is actually one room in an old, dark, depressing building, and he rents it from an elderly Croatian woman who wears housecoats and carries a broom around. His seeks comfort in prayer.
I was getting teary just thinking about it. He’d probably called Joanie and begged her to let him stay on her couch, but she’d said no because her new boyfriend, Mack, wasn’t cool with it. Oy.
The next morning we asked the woman at the front desk if the hotel had a Lost and Found. They did, but like the police officer, she didn’t recommend leaving the wallet there, as it might end up in any number of places other than the hands of the owner. We were trying to do a good deed, but there was no viable way to actually do it. We truly had no idea what to do with the wallet besides carry it back to New York with us, put it in the mail and hope it arrived safely.
But there was one last — albeit highly unlikely — possibility. I’d noticed a pay stub from a corporate office in California. One of the logos on it belonged to an eatery called “The Grill.” Which happened to be the name of the eatery in our hotel’s lobby. I stopped in and asked the manager if there was anyone on staff with the name of the man whose wallet we’d found. THERE WAS, AND YES, HE’D LOST A WALLET THE NIGHT BEFORE!
We’d found a wallet two miles from the hotel and it happened to belong to someone who worked IN the hotel. Of all the hotels in the entire city. Uncanny, no?
I gave the wallet to the manager, who insisted that we wait until the wallet owner could thank us himself. A few minutes later, a waiter learned his wallet had not fallen into evil paws after all. He literally choked up as he expressed his gratitude profusely and relayed the details of the wallet’s loss (it wasn’t like him to lose things; he’d been distracted because this was his first week on the new job, he’d thought the wallet was in his pocket when he got out of the cab, and so on). He offered us money and semi-hugged me. I remain convinced that I had his story down pat, but either way, this seemed to put a smile on his face.
And I have to say that as much fun as I had on our trip to Chicago, knowing we’d brought such relief to this stranger was the best part by far.
From the Happy Ending Sundae Story Files …
Shortly after finishing my last post about the sad characters who torture me from time to time, I encountered yet another one who deserves to be included as an addendum. Or sad-dendum, as the case may be.
I was on my way to work the other day, listening to some retro music on my iPod, when a disheveled and malodorous gentleman appeared in front of me, out of nowhere. He was carrying a giant box of candy that appeared to be a generic version of the Welch’s chewy fruit thingies pictured here. I am familiar with said thingies because my dear friend Kelly has been known to eat them for breakfast, on account of their being fruit and all.
“Buy some candy! Support [insert name of charity I’d never heard of]!”
I kept walking without responding, but am not sure whether it was because he startled me, because I didn’t fully hear him, or because I found his alleged charity – whose name included the words children, shelter, hospital, clinic, cancer, homeless, Katrina, asbestos, September 11th, AIDS, Basque separatists, Darfur, puppy mills, dolphins, fur, veterans, diamond mining, gay rights, reproductive rights, seatbelt laws, child labor laws, bottle-fed children, migrant workers, little people, exploited reality TV stars, Paris Jackson, and of course, recombinant bovine somatatrophin – highly suspicious.
I thought and hoped the man would see that I wasn’t interested in his wares and move on to the next passerby. But no.
He shouted the following after me: “Miss! MISS! COME ON! They just fruit treats. They not gonna hurt you!”
Frick on a tax-deductible stick. Why did he have to say “fruit TREATS?” Of all possible words – why THAT one?
The question I really should have been asking myself was why the word “treats” made struck me as so sad, but I was too caught up in the epic drama of the moment to be introspective. I was also too caught up in the epic drama of the moment to actually purchase a bag of the harmless fruit treats. Instead, I continued on my way and sent 10 emails describing this interaction. I was comforted to know that many of my friends found the word “treats” touching as well. But still … it is I who must bear the burden of this man alone.
Two Shout-Outs
Congratulations to my very funny friend Lisa and her husband Jeff on the birth of Emmet Samuel, born yesterday!
And congratulations in advance to Melissa on the eve of her Boston nuptials — can’t wait to see the photos and hear highlights from Lauren’s speech!
My Soul-Mat, Part 2
A split-second recap of “My Soul-Mat, Part 1″: I suck at sports.
Sloth found it intolerable that I didn’t want to rollerblade, scuba dive or ski with him. He couldn’t relate at all to my phobia, and thanks to his harping, I came to think of my un-athletic nature as a serious manufacturer’s defect, and remain extremely sensitive about it.
Then I started spending time with the super-sweet K. He is a true and versatile athlete. He runs. He surfs. He does something called urban rebounding. In high school, he was on the football, wrestling and track and field teams. He is in amazing shape and I couldn’t imagine that he’d ever speak to me again if he knew the full extent of my un-coordination.
The other day, he asked me if I wanted to join him for an afternoon yoga class at his gym.
Oh well. This was nice while it lasted.
The truth is, I’d always wanted to try yoga. Multiple gym-going friends told me they thought I’d like it, on account of its ability to reduce tension and the fact that I am somewhat flexible. Then, when I read “Eat, Pray, Love” last fall, I became curious about the balance and clarity it’s supposed to cultivate. Yoga sounded like the perfect thinking woman’s sport. But, being somewhat sloth-like myself, I never motivated.
So this would be my virgin experience. There was a 200 percent chance that I would look like a complete jackass in front of K. Was it worth the risk? WHY, for the love of God, had I not gone with Dave when he’d asked me a bazillion times in Philly? I’d have been a high-ranking yogi with my own ashram by now.
I knew I had to do this. And I wanted to. I was just a smidge anxious.
The first challenge was finding something to wear. I hesitated to even open the drawer in which I keep my limited stash of workout clothes, for fear that doing so would unleash a cartoon dust cloud. I did find a pair of faded black yoga pants that would have been perfectly reasonable had their left thigh not been adorned with some kind of oil stain, most likely from pizza. Ew. But what choice did I have? There was no time to shop for stylin’ yoga gear and skinny jeans were bound to hinder my bending ability.
So, in my flawed Old Navy pantalones and tank top, I headed east. The class started at 5:45. At about 5:30, K told me very matter-of-factly that this particular type of yoga – EarthRise yoga – involved elements of martial arts. A feeling much like the one I get before dentist appointments came over me.
“You mean like, ‘Wax-on-wax-off’ martial arts?” I asked nervously.
“Don’t worry. It’s unlikely you’ll have to smash your head into a block of wood,” he told me reassuringly.
I imagined that at some point in the next hour, smashing my head into a block of wood might seem merciful. But first I had to figure out which side of the yoga mat was supposed to face up. I prayed I would guess correctly, and called upon my intimate knowledge of Dr. Scholl’s shoe inserts, whose material sort of reminded me of the mat’s. Luck was on my side.
Then we sat (in the back, which I felt was safer), as one after another toned, Lululemon-clad girls piled into the room and began to stretch. It seemed unwise for me to expend any energy before the class even started, lest I use it all up. Furthermore, I didn’t know any official stretches, beyond the type that accompanies a yawn. But staring into space made me look creepy, so I compromised by sitting Indian-style on the mat and then bending my head down to my knees.
As I was wondering about the impact of that position on my intracranial pressure and the germ population on the borrowed yoga mat, K commented that most of the other attendees had brought personal water bottles with them. I looked up and saw that the nearest water fountain was about three miles away in the corner of the studio. Getting to it would require me to walk across several rows of experienced yoga-doers, all of whom would then know that I was too thirsty and too clumsy to hold the Crane pose.
Just then I heard the ceiling fans shut off. Crappy McCrapperstein: was this one of those “hot” Bikram yoga classes I’d heard about?! Fabulous. They were going to twist my torso into a pretzel, smash my head into a piece of mahogany and then smoke me out.
Enter the instructor, who is actually the creator of EarthRise yoga. He was covered in tattoos and, on first glance, rather menacing-looking. I watched as he showed off some of the newly inked masterpieces he’d just acquired on his wrists. And I couldn’t tell for sure, but from where I sat, it looked like one of them said, “R.I.P. Traci.”
A very heavy woman came and put her mat down next to mine. I’m really not saying that to be cruel – she was, empirically, “in charge,” as K said later. But she was also an inspiration – I figured that if she could do it, I could too.
And I have to say that it felt great once we got started. The instructor was not at all scary and in fact, very helpful. It was challenging, but do-able, and my muscles were thrilled to be in use. This wasn’t a beginner’s class, so most people knew the poses already. I was at a slight disadvantage because I had to survey the crowd and then try to copy whatever they were doing, which meant that by the time I got into one position, I was supposed to be on the next already. But some of the poses – or asanas, as I learned they were called in the yoga realm – were easy for me (as I assume they would be for anyone). I was quite proud of my performance on Upward-Facing Dog, Downward-Facing Dog, Pigeon and Chair. Others made my legs shake and underscored the sad reality that I’m not nearly as flexible as I thought I was, and not even remotely balanced. I almost toppled over onto K a few times.
But it was a fascinating experience, and I was in awe of what some of the people in the class were able to do with their bodies. I loved the soft, soothing music in the background, the breathing and the fact that I didn’t have to worry about accidentally scoring for the opposing team or missing a ball that was thrown directly at me. If I screwed up, it was just my own spine that would pay the price. It was the first time I had ever engaged in anything physical and not felt like a complete moron. I could actually do this again!
Wow. Yoga could change my life! This could be the start of a new, healthier me! After 36.5 years of trying, I might actually find inner peace. As I rolled from an “Up Dog” to a “Down Dog,” I marveled at how well I’d held up. Sure, I was out of breath and sweating in parts of my body I didn’t know I had, but the class was almost over, I was still conscious and I had overcome my phobia.
“OKAY!,” the instructor said. “Great warm-up!”
The Age Gap
To the five or six kindly people who still remember this blog, I want to apologize for my absence. I have no excuse, except that I am lazy and unmotivated, which is why I will never write a novel, which is why no one will ever option it and make me a screenwriter, which is why no one will ever cast Sandra Bullock or Marisa Tomei as me, which is why I will never win an Academy Award and get to say, “In your face, mean high school girls,” which is why I will never be rich. Additionally, nothing all that funny has occurred of late.
However, I now wish to share an exchange I overheard whilst partaking of the evening meal at Jan and Lew’s East Side domicile the other night. I arrived a few minutes before Lew got home from work, and Jan poured me a glass of wine then joined me on the couch. When Lew entered the apartment, he said a quick hello and headed into the bedroom to change.
Now, over the course of the past few years, I’ve had no choice but to start accepting, with great sadness and angst, that my parents are aging. Most of their friends from New Jersey now live in “communities” for ”active” adults age 55 and over (because the 300-lb Ilene Cohen is nothing if not “active”). Their dinner hour is decreasing at a pace of a few minutes a year — they once sat down to eat at 8. They’re now done by 7 and I know what lies ahead. They’re eligible for all kinds of discounts and seem creepily PROUD to inform the movie ticket vendor or train conductor of their age. They wear solid white sneakers. They refer to all social networking web sites as “MyFace.”
And it goes without saying that their hearing isn’t what it used to be. Growing up, a mere sneeze from the other side of the house could awaken my sleeping father and send him into an insomniacal rage.
Now, I’ll say something completely inocuous like, “Wow. These new shoes are super-comfy,” and Lew, who blames his personal aural woes on the screaming teens at a Duran Duran concert he chaperoned in 1985, will mis-hear me and respond, “Listen — watch your mouth. It’s okay to talk like that around us. But not everyone finds that kind of thing funny.” I, of course, will have no choice but to ask him what on God’s green earth he thinks I’ve just said, and he, of course, is never actually able to tell me.
But this particular conversation really underscored the truth for me. I’m not even sure it can be called a conversation, as they seemed to be talking to themselves.
Sitting in the living room, I heard Lew calling my mother’s name.
“Jan.”
No response.
“Jan!”
No response.
“JAN! WHAT IS THIS?”
I intervened, informing my mother that Lew requested her attention.
“What?” she called back.
L: What’s this bag with the dry cleaning that just came back?
J: Bag? What bag?
L: JAN!
No response.
L: JAN! What’s this bag that came back with the dry cleaning? It looks like it’s from the Gap?!
J (to me): Is he asking me about his shirts?
Me: No. A Gap bag.
J (to Lew): Gap bag? I didn’t buy anything from the Gap. I have no idea.
L: JAN!
No response.
L: It’s like a … like a … blue Gap bag or something … where’s that big blue bag they usually give us? Are you sure this is our stuff?
In a case of mistaken identity, this Gap bag was wrongly accused of stowing away with a pile of dry cleaning
J: The Gap? When would I have been in a Gap?
L: I don’t think this is our stuff, Jan.
J: I’ve never bought anything in the Gap in my life! Banana Republic, sure … H&M … but the Gap …?
L: I’m calling the cleaners.
J: OH! LEW? You know what? I DID buy something in the Gap a few months back. It was that gray hoodie. Or wait, did I get that at Banana Republic? Nope. It was the Gap.
Brief silence. Jan appears deep in thought.
J: LEW? HEY! LEW? Did I put your underwear in that bag?
Big fat EW! And what is she even TALKING ABOUT? Under what circumstances would anyone put anyone else’s undies in a Gap bag, EVER?
L (walking into the living room): Nevermind. It wasn’t a Gap bag. It just looked like one.
Phew! I’m glad we cleared that up. Can we eat now? It’s pushing 5:30.
Ollie’s CV
Note: This is a silly post. It is, however, slightly chuckle-worthy to those who knew Ollie and/or anyone who has ever had a conversation with a dog.
The job applicant at a power lunch (he had tap water served in a fine, imported plastic bowl)
Shortly after our arrival in Philadelphia, while procrastinating as I canvassed the city for a job as good as the one I’d left in New York, I decided that Ollie should embark on a career search as well. But first, of course, he’d need a resume.
Experience
LAW FIRM OF SNAUSAGE, SNAUSAGE & SNAUSAGE, LLC, Philadelphia, PA
Of Snausage. Represent clients in the pet care and luxury pet goods industries, from prestigious doggie store Pooch to ghetto chains like PetSmart.
SCHUYLKILL DOGGIE PARK, Philadelphia, PA
Union Leader. Organize and lead doggie strikes and escapes in response to presence of loud, scary train. Responsible for overseeing five mutts, two other Wheatens, a drooly St. Bernard, a giant poodle and some cuh-reepy German Shepherds.
PHOENIX APARTMENT BUILDING, Philadelphia, PA
Staring Contest Runner-Up. Participate in and almost win staring contests against world champion pouncer LuLu.
MUD PIT ACROSS THE STREET, Philadelphia, PA
Champion Pee-er. Title-holder for “Longest, Most Relieving Pee Ever.”
WESTIN HOTEL, Chicago, IL
Valet Visitor. Made frequent trips (against owners’ recommendations) to four-star hotel’s valet services office in case dry cleaning (spare harness) had arrived.
RAISIN TREE FARMS, Howell, MI
Marketing Manager. Serve as representative of soft-coated Wheaten terrier litter born September 2004; responsibilities include acting as cuh-yoot as possible for manipulative purposes, pretending to be perfectly behaved, and drinking special blend of evaporated milk and water.
Education
DE-PAW COLLEGE, Philadelphia, PA
Concentration in Snausage Studies and Classical Barking.
Hobbies
Emailing; eating Frosty Paws; chewing on expensive shoes; Spanish lessons; reading Snausage Monthly; watching SpongeBob Square Pants(he lives in a pineapple under the sea); playing with Howie, LuLu and Dolly; tug of war; bones.
Contact Information
snausagefan@yahoo.com
Sleepless at the Service Line
For the past two weeks, a particularly virulent strain of insomnia has plagued me. If you must know, I didn’t fall asleep until 5 a.m. last night. I’ve battled insomnia on and off throughout my life, and I’ve found that long-term exhaustion intensifies all my anxieties, fears and concerns. For a few nights, I lay awake obsessing over the fact that I could very well have fatal familial insomnia, one of the most fascinating genetic diseases I’ve ever read about. It didn’t matter that there was virtually no way in hell that anyone in my family of Eastern European peasant, mule-owning Jews had ever even come in contact with — much less done the nasty with – a member of the one family (Italian royalty, I should add) whose blood carries this horrid disease.
For a few more nights, I obsessed about instant messages I’d sent at the office. What if my boss had been paying my so-called work friends to entrap me? What if their snide comments were only meant to lure me into making even snider comments, which were then printed out and handed in to upper management? On other nights, the 70s-infused theme song of Swingtown refused to stop coming into my head while I tried to slumber; thoughts of those mysterious little holes in my t-shirts drove me crazy; and/or the sound of the air conditioner kept me up.
Then, inevitably, came the nights when I reviewed every mistake I’d made in my life, starting with the selection of red Buster Brown lace-ups instead of the brown leather Mary Jane-type shoes in 1976. My nocturnal regretting also included trading a “Virginia is for Lovers” reflector sticker for four Butter Rum Life-Savers in 1981; never getting to say goodbye to Ollie; spending money to see “Opportunity Knocks”; leather Keds; eating a Pizza Hut individual pan pizza before getting on that one flight from Boston to Newark; choosing the wrong college; choosing the wrong graduate program; choosing the wrong first job; sliding downhill from there; and just generally failing to do anything right, ever.
All this brought back a particularly regrettable incident in December of 1996. I had decided that I loved Pete Sampras a few months earlier after being completely moved by his public barfage at the U.S. Open that year. At the time, I was working as the editor of a dinky, now-defunct magazine for military wives, and as such was able to secure press credentials for use at a benefit tennis tournament at Madison Square Garden. My future husband P. Sampras, along with Andre Agassi, Jim Courier and John McEnroe, was playing to raise money for the Tim and Tom Gullikson Foundation and brain cancer patients; the press credentials meant I could partake of the press conference beforehand. I arrived early and managed to secure a front-row seat. It was my first (and only) celebrity-related press conference, and in addition to being the only female in attendance, I appeared to be the only ”reporter” not employed at a major newspaper or sports magazine. P. Sampras and co. were on a first-name basis with all the inquiring journalists. While they swapped private jokes and referenced famous tennis matches going back to the 70s, I tried to figure out why THE HELL I had thought it was a good idea to wear ill-fitting and too-light Gap jeans, a hideously colored Norwegian print sweater and the ugliest square-toe boots ever manufactured.
Even though I was hardly the world’s leading tennis expert, it was hard not to be awed by the close-up sight of P, A, J and J. I spent a few seconds just staring at each of them. When I landed on P, I thought for a nanosecond that he might be looking at me. This struck me as ridiculously unlikely, but still …
I conducted a test — I looked down at my sham of a reporter’s notebook for a minute, then back up.
FRICK ON A TOP-SEEDED STICK! PETE SAMPRAS IS CHECKING ME OUT IN MY ILL-FITTING GAP JEANS!
If cell phones had existed back then, I would have sent a big, fat “OMFG” to everyone I knew.
I forced myself to raise an arm and come up with an entree into the King of Swing’s life. When I did, P. Sampras called on me and SMILED. Did I mention that Pete Sampras smiled at me?
Miraculously able to speak, I asked them if they’d consider making this benefit an annual event if it proved successful. (They would, but never did.)
A few minutes later, the press conference wrapped up, and I found myself a smidge surprised that P. Sampras had not stood up and said, “Now I have a question for YOU. Will you marry me?”
I filed out of the room with the real journalists and bent down in the hallway to re-organize my bag.
When I stood up, P. Sampras was standing right in front of me.
OMFG. OMFG. OMFG.
He smiled and said, “Hi. Pete Sampras. Nice to meet you.”
OMFG. OMFG. OMFG.
December 1996, New York: P. Sampras cries upon learning I am too retarded to say hi to him
Now, there were any number of logical responses I could have given. For one thing, I could have, oh, I don’t know, SAID HI BACK TO HIM. I could have introduced myself. I could have given him my card. I could have told him how much I liked watching him play and/or what a great idea this benefit was. But did I say any of those things? DID I SAY ANYTHING AT ALL?! No. In fact, I’m not even sure I smiled. I can only remember emitting some kind of unintelligble, Chris Farley-esque sound and being completely paralyzed. While I can imagine how much of an absolute moron I must have looked like to him, I prefer not to.
And so, P. Sampras and I went our separate ways, he to the court and me to the stands. I would meet John McEnroe two more times, at his gallery in Soho, and I would pass Jim Courier several times on the streets of Manhattan. But P. Sampras and I would not cross paths again. Twelve years later, the leggy blonde actress Brigitte Wilson sleeps with my husband in a Los Angeles mansion. OMFG. I HAVE to get some Ambien.
Spilling the Beans
Why didn't I think of this?
It was my turn to make the afternoon pilgrimage to Starbucks. Typically, the individual responsible for the daily Starbucks run takes at least one other person with him or her, because it just isn’t possible to carry more than two caffeinated beverages unless one has disturbingly large hands. But due to a seemingly endless Customer Service meeting that occupied a large portion of my co-workers, I found myself flying solo.
I was a smidge concerned because I was sporting a cute frock I’d only worn once before, and one of the girls had requested a tall, hot coffee. Never once have I been able to tote a hot coffee any distance without involuntarily demonstrating a little move I like to call the spill-n-scald. Recently, I discovered that by piling 50+ napkins on top of the Starbucks lid, I could greatly cut down on both spillage and scaldage. Unfortunately, in today’s eco-friendly, greener-than-thou environment, grabbing so many napkins is frowned upon with excessive condescension. I dreaded the dirty looks I’d get from Birkenstock-wearing, soy latte and green tea drinkers in Chelsea. Still, the dirty looks were preferable to the ruined expensive white tops.
Today, however, when the barrista slid me the tall hot coffee I’d ordered, there was a mysterious green thing sticking out of the sip hole. Fascinating! Some lucky individual — probably employed at a crappy job which caused him to require copious amounts of caffeine — had invented a coffee cork! This toothpick-esque sliver of plastic prevented leakage and was alarmingly simple. The guy was probably a bazillionaire now with a lifetime supply of Starbucks. That bastard! Why had I not thought of this?
Thanks to the plug, I managed to deliver the coffee in pristine conditon — having lost nary a drop. I also delivered an ice coffee with grace and aplomb. Then, gently, I began to pull my own drink — a caramel frappuccino – out of the cardboard tray. The lid came flying off and within a nanosecond, the lower half of my dress was covered in sugary beige sludge.
The moral of the story is: some people are lucky. Some people end up covered in sludge.
Thanks for Sharing
At approximately 2 p.m. this afternoon, on my way back from lunch procurement at Benvenuto, I noticed a cute little puppy that was either a Cairn or a Norwich terrier, just sitting there calmly, checking out the scenery on 24th Street. Both breeds are fairly popular in the city given their compact size and the equally compact size of the average residence here, but I had never before seen one so young and innocent-looking. (For your reference and terrier edification: Dorothy’s Toto, while oft mistaken for a Scottie, was actually a Cairn terrier.)
I bent down to pet the dog, who was very nice and generously supplied me with puppy kisses. I did feel like I was cheating a little bit on Howie and LuLu, but I also felt like they’d be happy I was getting some doggie love in their absence.
“Is this a Cairn terrier or a Norwich terrier?” I asked the owner, whose gender was indeterminate. “So cute!”
“I can’t get her to urinate,” He-She blurted out in a gender-neutral and Tourette’s-like manner.
Um … sorry to hear that … I have irritable bowel syndrome.
I didn’t really know how to respond. Sure, Ollie had been known to withhold pee when he was distracted by a blade of grass, a pigeon, the faint smell of fried chicken, or another dog, but I’m fairly sure that was never the first thing I said to people I met on the streets of Philadelphia.
Moreover, everyone knows that dogs pee. They don’t “urinate.” They do not evacuate their bladders. I cannot imagine how much like a jackass I would have sounded if I’d used that word during my nightly 11 p.m. fight with Sloth about which of us would be taking Ollie for his bedtime constitutional. (Me)
“Husband, it is your turn to ensure that our canine, Ollie, urinates prior to retiring for the evening. I was on urination duty last night and the night before. He has not urinated in several hours and if he does not urinate outside now, he may urinate within the domicile later. I would prefer that no urination take place within said domicile, as the plush beige carpet already emits a urine-esque odor. Ergo, please take Ollie outside and see that he urinates.”
In the end, I merely chuckled politely in response to the gender-unknown dog owner. I wished I’d had some pee-inducing wisdom for her, but the one piece of relevent advice I had didn’t seem like something He-She would want to hear: that the surest way to get a puppy to take a leak is to bring him inside and put him somewhere you DON’T want him to pee.
The Icing on the (Cup)Cake
I’d like to give a special shout out to my friend L, who taught me a nifty cupcake-eating tip this weekend. We were attending a lovely bridal shower at PS 450, held in honor of our friend J, in whose June wedding we and the rest of our channel 13 posse will serve as b’maids. As J neared the end of the gift-opening process, the girls and I noticed an impressive tray of cupcakes approaching our table. Cupcakes: dee-LICIOUS! [Yet again, insert Cookie Monster voice.]
DB, CO, A, L and I each selected one of the delicacies and commenced ingestion. I found it interesting that we all had very different techniques when it came to eating cupcakes. I’m sure the same is true among any group of adult cupcake eaters, but I’d never really noticed it before. In fact I think the last time I had cupcakes with my friends on a Sunday afternoon, it was 1979. The renaissance that this perfect dessert is now enjoying has opened up a whole new can of social mores. Can you lick off all the icing with your future mother-in-law nearby? How well do you have to know the people you’re with before you’re comfortable risking a frosting ’stache? Is it cool to just pull off the bottom and eat that first, delaying the butter creamy gratification of the top?
Frankly, I don’t really care what does and does not appear lady-like while eating a cupcake. The only thing that matters to me when I have one in my hand is attaining the right ratio of cake to icing in every bite. It’s always been a Seinfeldian struggle, and to overcome it, I must know the nature of the cupcake very well.
But then L revealed something she’d learned recently at Magnolia, the famous Bleecker Street cupcakery that is now conveniently located on Columbus Avenue as well. She advised us to pull off the bottom half of the cupcake and then place it on TOP of the frosting, creating a cupcake SANDWICH. It was neat, it was simple, it was proportioned, it was brilliant! Thanks, L!
Note: In order to successfully pull off the cupcake sandwich technique, you must ensure that the cupcake in question features significant frosting. The cupcake pictured here exemplifies the correct frosting situation. Do not attempt this trick if you’re facing a thin layer of frosting or a delicate glaze of any kind – you’ll end up with a mouthful of cake and very little else. You’ll be sorry, and you’ll need milk.
